
Photo and Commentary ©2026 by Shelley Schurch
Wednesday, May 13, 2026
Can you see it? It’s small. Tiny, even. That’s how I know it’s my cross, not His.
I’ve thought a lot about His cross. I’ve heard about it, read about it, sung about it, and repeatedly thanked Him for enduring it.
I haven’t thought as much about my cross.
Asking myself why, I had a couple of quick answers: 1) I don’t fully understand what my cross is, and 2) I understand enough to not be completely comfortable with having one.
It’s so much easier to praise Jesus for carrying His cross, enduring its shame, all for the love of me. (Although it’s hard to comprehend how He could have counted the cost of His cross and decided I was worth it, that you and I were worth it.)
I needed to shake off my reluctance and understand more about my cross, so I searched the Bible to find all the verses that talk about my cross, not His. I was surprised that there are not that many mentions. I thought there would have been more. I read what Matthew, Mark, and Luke said, in context.
Reading the context was, as always, quite helpful. For instance, in Luke 14 Jesus is recorded as saying:
And whoever does not bear his cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple. (verse 27, NKJV)
Who’s He talking to? What prompted Jesus to make such a strong statement?
The passage begins a few verses earlier with these words:
Now great multitudes went with Him. And He turned and said to them . . . (verse 25)
I think that Jesus sensed the “need to weed.” If there were great multitudes, the chances are that many (most?) of them did not understand what it meant to fully follow Him. He needed to explain, and make it plain.
So he talks about a man intending to build a tower, but first sitting down and calculating its cost, and a king planning to wage war against another king, but first sitting down and considering how his warriors match up against his foe’s warriors.
Jesus then concludes:
So likewise, whoever of you does not forsake all that he has cannot be My disciple. (verse 33)
He seems to urge those in the great multitudes who “went with Him,” and now us, to consider our lives, to calculate the cost of fully following Jesus – not as an observer, but as a disciple.
After studying this passage in Luke, and the handful of other verses that talk about carrying my cross, I hear Jesus saying that it means I have considered my life, and that I count my love for Him as deeper and more important than my love for anyone or anything else.
How could I decide He deserves second, third, or any other place in my personal world, when He risked death on His cross to open the door to eternal life for me?
The cross in my photo above is tiny, however it is no small thing to choose to fully follow Jesus. But any cross I bear is totally eclipsed by the shadow of His cross.
Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. For consider Him who endured such hostility from sinners against Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls. (Hebrews 12:1-3 NKJV)
So we take heart, take up our crosses, and follow the One who endured all, and invites us to:
Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)









